Christmas wish list

Perfection is Perception

Hi friends
Before i start this blog post i wanted to say these are not materialistic things, in my wish list but emotional and life skills/ lessons I hope will come to me during the Christmas period or Santa will be very kind to me this year and I will wake up with these things on Christmas morning.

The first thing is
Optimism
I'm a really negative person by nature, but instead of seeing the worst in myself, other people and situations i hope to see life in a better light, and have a bit of optimism towards  life

Recovery

this is something I know I cant wake up and be recovered but I would like to have a better and smoother recovery process

Family

I would like to have better relationships with my family

Self-worth

Don't let others define yourself worth. you and only you can define your self-worth.

Be open with people

Don't close people out when your trying to protect them be open with them and tell them how your feeling but more importantly listen to how they are feeling in response

Being happy with myself

This is like a few of the others but being happy with myself and not taking other peoples opinions seriously taking everything with a pinch of sault

Perfection is perception

Remember if you feel the need to be perfect find your definition of perfect and fit that don't try to be someone else's definition of perfect because in experience you'll hate yourself more being their definition rather than how you was before

Be grateful

Don't compare yourself or belongings to others be grateful for what you have and the people you have in your life

Forgive yourself

Don't be angry at yourself for things in the past you cant change it try and make the best of a bad

situation

Don't stress but don't over look the little things

Appreciate the small things. not even physical things but memories. not just remembering the big things like Christmas but the happy family movie days. and don't stress over the little things don't sit back and don't plan if that makes you stressed but don't let little things keep you awake at night

Don't stop caring about others but give yourself a brake

This is much like others. yes you can care about others but don't let your care for others take over the care you should have for yourself. Don't put others feelings above your own, yes its hard hurting people you care about but its not worth being hurt yourself

Don't be afraid, embrace life

This is something I will forever find hard. I'm afraid of the unknown. And this is something I need to work on I don't want to be afraid my howl life I want to let life do its thing and embrace the unknown part of life

Find a coping strategy

Find a coping strategy that isn't self destructive and isn't hurting others, find something that you can do as and when you need to and makes you happy

Deal with your issues with words not silence

Don't keep things bottled up, its okay to tell people your problems and issues not everyone is perfect everybody has issues. its okay to talk about it weather its a professional or not  

Find your happy places

Find your own place that doesn't have any worries or fear. find a place weather it be a real place or a imaginary place that makes you happy and you can have to yourself and you don't need to share it.

Okay friends I understand this may not help you in anyway but if you do find this helpful please share this with others that might find this helpful, you want more like this let me know by tweeting me @p_a_pblog and let me know if you want anything Christmas themed!

Thank you for reading

Much love see you soon

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