this is a new year. a new beginning. and things will change - taylor swifthello friends,
Happy New Year! hope your having a good one so far. today I wanted to talk today about new year resolutions. As I'm sure a lot of you are like me, have a new years resolution do it for a month or two then you give up or just forget about it, this has been the story of my life since I started trying to keep any resolutions but this year I'm determined to get to my goals.
this year I have a list of things I want to do or goals I want to achieve and iv find its better to write stuff down, I find as someone who has anxiety lists help me a lot, it helps me get stuff done because I'm very forgetful and if I forget something I get very stressed and I also find if I achieve my goals I like to cross them out I find it a lot easier to cross stuff out so its not stressing me out
I also think we should aim high when choosing goals not only this year but in life but I also think we shouldn't put unrealistic goals in place, that's why this year I haven't put anything huge like travel to Australia iv put things I feel like stop biting my nails.
so here is my list of what I want to do this year and a little explanation ;
- stop hording:
so I'm really bad at hording (keeping things that don't need to be kept) I'm not so bad with keeping things like my first shoes or anything like that I'm bad with food and clothes. I'm the person who loves food, iv mentioned before that I'm on the bigger size but I'm not 'fat' but in my house if you don't move and hide things then you wont get it, so especially after Christmas when there is so much sweets and chocolate in the house if you don't move it and keep it in your room then by the end of January then its gone. I'm also horde clothes, I believe in things like 'lucky underwear' but I have lucky jeans, lucky tshirt and lucky socks and things like tshirts I cant see all of them in my chest of draws then ill just wear the ones I remember I own so if I cant see it I end up keeping it for years
- stop biting my nails
- get to 8 stone
I have no clue of how much I actually weigh I haven't been weighed for 2 years but I know I'm 'fat' and I'm heavy for my age I'm really exited about this I'm looking forward to having a good body for the summer and making me feel better about myself
- blog twice a week or more
if you don't know I'm at college at the moment and with course work iv got a lot on but I want to get more consistent with this blog and post more, I want to post sunday, Wednesday and maybe Friday depending on work load but I will starting from today will stick to these days
- finish college
- get more body modifications
this is part of my journey of finding myself and finding my sense of style. they make me feel better about myself and i really like how i look with them
- save more money
I'm actually really good with saving money i would like to do more so, so i can open my own salon and i can afford to do things with friends and do things with my family.
- have more self belief
i have very little self belief in my work and in myself as a person. I'm very effected by what others say and think this is defiantly shown very recently in college making me believe that I'm not good at my job nor am i good at anything i try
- find and do what makes me happy
at the moment i know things i enjoy but i haven't got anything that truly makes me happy so finding something that does and doing it i have a habit of not taking care of myself and not giving myself time to relax so finding something that makes me happy is very useful
so these are my goals for this year comment or tweet me your goals and let me know
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much love speak soon
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