we've all got both light and dark inside us. what matters is the part we choose to act on. That's who we really are.
Hello Friends
Welcome back to our little blog.
I'm going to be honest with you friends, I'm so ready for Christmas. I love Christmas and i always make a big deal for Christmas and this will be the first blog of my Christmas season .
I wrote a blog post like this last year and you guys really seemed to enjoy it and i really liked writing it so i thought i would do it again. As i said last year this wish list isn't materialistic things this wish list is things is emotional life lessons/ skills i want to learn for Christmas.
The first one is
Finding something that makes me happy.
I know a lot of things make me happy doesn't mean they make me relax and are actually good for me and my health, i have just finished therapy and i want to find something that makes me happy and helps with my mental health.
Take a leap into the unknown
I am a huge control freak and doing things iv never done before is massively scary and makes me very anxious. 2017 i will be starting to do a lot of new things and it actually starts as of this weekend and I'm really excited but i need to push myself to do things that iv never done before
Social media isn't the real world
This is something that i need to work on and i know a lot of people have issues with separating social media and the real world. The world we see online is so different from the real world. People only post online what they want you to see and its heavily edited so we only see the good or the impressive things that others are doing we don't see the days there people are sad and cant get out of bed because of crippling anxiety.
Don't believe everything that you read online
Things you read online always have 2 sides and mostly we only read opinion a lot of the time or its just stories with 'blurred truths' to make the story more interesting rather than factual.
Express yourself
I tend to not express myself with words very well so finding a creative outlet to express myself is something that i am desperate to find.
Believe in myself
Over the last few months i have had a few exciting things that could be taking place and because of my own self doubt i thought and gave up thinking they would never happen and because other people have believed in me i have been able to do so much but i now need to take the belief that other people have in me and start to believe in myself .
Work hard to get what you want
Like the one above, i need to work hard to get what i want in life. Its easy to go along with the 'flow' of life to finish school, get a job, find a partner, get married, stat a family. Do something you want to do. If you work hard and keep believing you can do anything or everything you want to do.
I did this last year and you guys seemed to like it and i wanted to the same thing this year, if you think someone you know needs to read this don't forget to share this post. If you want me to talk about anything leave a comment or tweet me @p_a_pblog and to be the first to see what iv gotten up to follow my Instagram. Also don't forget to follow my blog to be apart of our little community and to get a email every time i upload so you never miss a post.
Thank you so much for the support
Much love speak soon,
D
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